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Article #9: Opinions on prostitution

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Forced to fend for themselves due to the is available throughout the month.
death or incapacitation of their male The ban on working women further
breadwinners, and banned from seeking complicates the scenario for households
gainful employment under the Taliban headed by women. Pushed into a corner,
dispensation, scores of Afghani women are most such women first came out in droves
turning to prostitution to eke out a to beg. Now, many of them are turning to
living Clad in the ubiquitous shuttlecock prostitution as a more convenient source
burqa, she crosses a street in Kabul’s of income.
Shahr-I-Nau district and enters a “Pretending to be beggars, these women
cosmetics and toiletry store. She walks have easy access to clients who are
up straight to the clerk and stretches mainly shopkeepers and their trading
out her hand as if to ask for alms. But partners in Pakistan, Iran and the
this gesture is just a ruse. “It’ll Gulf,” contends a former member of
be two lakh Afghanis (equivalent to 250 Taliban’s religious police, popularly
Pakistani rupees) per head, nothing known as Amr bil Maroof. Most shops in
less,” she tells the clerk under her Kabul contain a storeroom or an attic,
breath, casting a veiled glance at me and which can be used for the purpose. But
the one other man present in the store. more security conscious clients prefer to
“I was expecting some good business, fix appointments elsewhere such as their
but I dropped it when I received word homes. For Diva and others like her, such
from you.” “I’m sorry, but this an invitation can translate into a
call is just for an interview with our million Afghanis in one night, which, as
journalist friend here,” replies the far as they are concerned, can buy 100
clerk apologetically, pointing in my nanns.
direction. “It’ll still be two The more wretched of Kabul’s
lakhs,” she insists. “I told you I prostitutes live in brothels, where they
dropped some good business to come have to share their income with the madam
here.” As radiant as her name, which and the resident pimp. RAWA claims that
means an oil lamp in Pushto, Diva is a there are some 25 to 30 brothels
stunning beauty. In the privacy of the operating in Kabul. A Taliban source in
store’s attic, she throws off her the Hauz-I-Awwal police cannot confirm
tattered burqa to reveal a beautiful this figure, but admits that brothels do
crimson blouse and an ankle-length black indeed exist. “I know of one place in
Afghani skirt. the Ashiqan-o-Arifan neighborhood, and I
Diva’s shoes are worn, but pepping from have heard that there are others in Qalae
underneath the hem of her skirt is a Zaman Khan. But they change their
shimmer of gauze stockings. Her neatly location every few months to avoid
trimmed brunette hair falls in straight detection.” When they do get caught,
tresses to her shoulders. Her eyebrows judicial authorities are bribed and the
are plucked thin into perfect arches and accused gets away with only a few lashes.
there is no make-up to mar her glowing Aqazad, who worked at a brothel in Qalae
complexion. Though she looks barely 20, Musa, recalls one such incident. “The
Diva claims she’s 28. Taliban once picked up one of the girls
“I graduated from collage in geophysics on charges of zina, but the pimp paid the
and used to work for the government,” judicial officer six million Afghanis who
she says. But life changed dramatically in turn advised the girl to plead not
for Diva in 1995 when she was abducted guilty. The prosecution was reined in,
and raped allegedly by some fighters of and she was only imprisoned for 60 days
the Hizb-I-Islami in the southern and received 20 lashes.” In Kabul,
Chilistoon district of Kabul. “I however, court cases based on charges of
returned to work for a brief period, but adultery are few and far between. “It
in September 1996 the Taliban overran is difficult to keep an eye on all the
Kabul and ordered women to stay home.” beggars and monitor shops throughout the
Left without a dependable source of day. Even if a suspect is found in a
income, Diva was forced into shop, she can conveniently plead that she
prostitution. was just begging. Besides, it is very
Diva lives with her aged mother and three difficult to prove adultery under the
sisters, one of whom is a prostitute and Islamic Law, which requires four
the other a widow with three children. God-fearing witnesses who have seen the
She has a 15-year-old brother who works act’ as clearly as a thread going
at a smithy for 100,000 Afghanis a month. though the eye of a needle’” explains
With their combined incomes, the family the source in Hauz-I-Awwal.
appears to be in a position to survive, As an added protection, the brothels
however modestly, on its own. entertain the Taliban free of charge.
Aqazad, a 35-year-old Tajik woman, is not “One of the reasons I left the house
as glamorous as Diva and only half as (brothel) was that every two or three
business-like. But her price is the same: days a group of Taliban youngsters would
200,000 Afghanis. “The money is only drop in and want to do it for free,”
enough to buy 10 naans, which is less says Aqazad. “I decided to move out.”
than what my family needs to feed itself A former member of the religious police
for one day,” she points out, defending confirms the involvement of the Taliban
her rates. Aqazad has four daughters and in such affairs and even provides an
two sons. The daughters sometimes take in explanation.
laundry, while thee sons, both of them “Communists and lechers have grown
less than 10 years old, beg on the beards and infiltrated the Taliban ranks.
streets. Her husband was an Afghan army They will do anything to defame the
officer who died in the battle of Taliban.” He recalls the time when some
Jalalabad in 1989. Between 1992 to 1996, of his colleagues took him to a brothel.
Aqazad ran a grocery stall in the “There they smoked hashish, performed
northern Khairkhana district. That lasted adultery and cracked jokes about Islam.
till the Taliban ordered all stalls run Some four months later, the entire gang
by women to be closed down. disappeared without a trace. And it was
According to Aqazad, she is extremely only later that a friend told me that
good at tar-shumar, the cross-stitch they were ex-communists from the
embroidery which is used to decorate Ningarhar province, out to have fun.”
women’s wear and shoulder bags. “I There are indications that poverty-driven
could embroider for large handicraft prostitution is not confined to Kabul
exports who pay well, but the Taliban do alone. Faced with abject poverty, women
not allow women to interact with male in other cities of Afghanistan are also
businessmen. And I have no male relatives turning to this profession. Mariam is one
through whom I can deal with the of them. She lost her husband in a rocket
exporters.” Both Diva and Aqazad hail attack on their house in the western
from that enormous cross-section of Border City of Heart two years ago. She
Afghani society whose male breadwinners lived for six months without the means to
have either been incapacitated or buy food for her six starving children.
consumed by the 20-year war, leaving the Following a period of acute anxiety
women and children to fend for during which she went as far as
themselves. The World Food Program contemplating suicide, she turned to
estimates that this segment numbers prostitution.” Among my clients were
between 60,000 to 120,000 individuals in many Taliban soldiers and qomandans
Kabul alone. Banned from work by the (commanders) who were generous as well as
Taliban, these women have very few gently,” she recalls. But things got
options other than begging on the streets really bad when the massing of Iranian
or becoming prostitutes in order to feed troops on Heart’s border around
themselves and their dependants. mid-1998 brought hordes of unruly Taliban
“There are hundreds of prostitutes youth to the city. “They were wild and
roaming the streets of Kabul and their tight-fisted, and when I demanded money,
numbers are rising every day,” asserts they said they would prefer to pay my
Zarghuna Hashemi, a Kabul-based daughter who was reaching puberty.”
spokeswoman of the Revolutionary Four months ago, Mariam sold whatever
Association of the Women of Afghanistan little she could muster to buy a ticket
(RAWA). “They are not the regular to Pakistan.
professionals we had in Kabul before or The wisdom of the Taliban’s so-called
during the war. These women are a product Islamic policies is being debated all
of the economic turmoil of the last three over the world. While concerned members
years.” The economic turmoil in of the international community continue
Afghanistan has indeed been severe. Over to express their outrage at the state of
the last three years, the price of wheat affairs, the predicament of the women
flour has risen by around 450 per cent to living in Taliban controlled Afghanistan
80,000 Afghanis per maund. While a goes from bad to worse. Taliban rhetoric
five-Kilogram canister of ghee carries a may claim that the ban on working women
price tag of 210,000 Afghanis, kerosene has been imposed to protect them from the
oil costs 60,000 per gallon. The prices, “ignominy” of dealing with men and
moreover, continue to escalate while the braving the world on their own. But it is
average government salary remains stuck these very repressive policies that are
between 110,000 to 300,000 Afghanis per forcing increasing numbers of Afghani
month. women to resort to the beasts of
The monthly wages of manual laborers are professions in the desperate struggle to
even lower and do not exceed one million survive.
Afghanis, provided, of course, that work






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