| Self suggestion is a naturally occurring process that | | | | with encouragement and understanding, we actually |
| we go through every day. On a daily basis, we tell | | | | make ourselves much more attractive to other |
| ourselves everything we believe and interpret as | | | | people. In fact, the men with the hottest women, |
| fact. Rarely do we attempt to input data into our | | | | the deepest and most significant relationships, and |
| brains that go against the grain of what we believe. | | | | let’s face it, the nicest cars and homes, all have |
| Self suggestion has the power to be positive as well | | | | the power to self suggest in positive ways. What |
| as the power to be negative. In fact, studies have | | | | makes him any better than us? Nothing except that |
| proven that self suggestion is one of the most | | | | we don’t believe or tell ourselves that we are |
| damaging tools we have in our repertoire of negative | | | | any better. |
| self talk. | | | | |
| | | | | If you want to become a master at self suggestion |
| We attract people, whether romantically or | | | | and start achieving bigger and better things and start |
| platonically, that we believe we deserve. If we are | | | | finding the right woman, remove the word |
| attracting women who cheat on us, who slap us in | | | | “but” from your life. How often do we say, |
| anger and manipulate us, we have inputed the data | | | | “I want that but…” or “I would really |
| into our brains that tell us this is the best we can | | | | like to but…” and how often are we self |
| achieve. Likewise, when we attract healthier, beautiful | | | | suggesting our way right out of what we want? |
| women it is because we have decided that is what | | | | Replace the word “but” with the word |
| we deserve. Over and over again, the mind | | | | “so” and you suddenly have a totally |
| reinforces what we believe through our own skewed | | | | different self suggestion. Athletes and powerhouses |
| self education. When someone hurts us or treats us | | | | learn to this very young. “I want that so I |
| poorly we can then revert straight to the immediate, | | | | will….” or “I would really like to so I |
| “See? This is what happens to me all the time, I | | | | will…” puts us right back in control of who we |
| guess this is the best I can do.” | | | | are going after and how we are going to behave in |
| | | | | order to accomplish it. It really is just a matter of |
| Unfortunately, many of learn to self suggest negative | | | | what we tell ourselves and changing what we believe |
| input at a very young age. When we were children | | | | we are worth. So what if your third grade teacher |
| and people said to us, “You aren’t good | | | | told you that you were stupid or your father told |
| enough,” we believed it and then developed a | | | | you that you were born to be a loser. What makes |
| long list of self defeating thoughts that enable us to | | | | them the expert? Who gives them the authority to |
| stay as low on the totem pole as we want. We learn | | | | determine who you are and how you are going to |
| to tell ourselves that some of the really attractive | | | | be? You can if you want but how is that working out |
| women are just too good for us and that we are | | | | for you so far? |
| not really worthy of a long term, committed | | | | |
| relationship. We tell ourselves that it was our fault | | | | Learning to adjust your image of yourself can take |
| she cheated because we weren’t taking care of | | | | time. It doesn’t have to, but most often it does. |
| the needs at home. It really doesn’t have to be | | | | We have learned so much that is just plain false that |
| that way. | | | | it takes a bit reworking to get ourselves back on the |
| | | | | right track. In fact, most people use their potential to |
| Our self talk can really be rather limiting for us. We | | | | change their self suggestion about 50 times before |
| tend to believe the opinions of others rather than | | | | they start to see any real results from it. Once they |
| what we want is attainable and even reasonable. Our | | | | see the first real and tangible change, then they start |
| judgments that we make against ourselves not only | | | | to make instant changes when they want to simply |
| hold us back from finding the woman we want, but | | | | by inputting positive, self affirming data. Change is |
| also hold us back in our careers, our hopes, and our | | | | always possible and a happy life with a happy and |
| daily lives. Self suggestion is actually powerful enough | | | | committed partner is just the tip of the iceberg. You |
| to make us ill. | | | | deserve so much, and it is time that you start |
| | | | | reminding yourself what an invaluable individual you |
| On the flip side, self suggestion has the power to | | | | really are. |
| turn fabulous corners in our lives and to help us grow | | | | |
| into the people we want to become. We can tell | | | | If you have found my article interesting, I have |
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| just take it back. When we opt to talk to ourselves | | | | It’s a must read. |