Domestic Violence - Crossing Boundaries

It could be how it is represented in the mediaIt could care less where you live, what exclusive
including news and television shows. Often you canclubs you do or do not belong to, where your kids
turn on the tv and see some talk show hostgo to school or the type of car you drive.
interviewing victims of domestic violence. If you areThat's because domestic violence is not about
not paying strict attention you could get the notionsociety as a whole. Of course the environment you
that it is something only happens to certain kinds ofgrew up in can have an impact on your behavior but
people.all too frequently it becomes the primary measuring
Maybe it's a certain ethnic or income group. It couldstick.
also be a group whose educational background is notTherefore it can come as a shock to some of us
as extensive as say for instance the talk show hostwhen we find out couples that live in a poor
doing the interviewing.neighborhood with extremely limited educational
Statistics which can be an indicator or just a snapshotbackgrounds have been happily married for countless
in time can also "confirm" that domestic violence isyears and have never experienced one instance of
almost exclusive to one group or another.domestic violence.
Impressions are one thing; reality is another. LynnMeanwhile married couples who are at the other end
Woolsey found that out. Ms Woolsey is aof the scale are domestic violence personified.
Congressional representative for California's sixthThis is not to say that it cannot affect one group or
district: "I represent an affluent district, but when Ianother disproportionately. It is to say however in
worked to form my county's first battered-women'sthe final analysis domestic violence comes down to
shelter, some nights there were no beds left.the interaction of two individuals regardless of what
Violence against women crosses all economic lines."district they live in.
As well as color lines, ethnic lines and educational lines.