Please and Thank You - They Are Magic Words

When your child asks you for something, as parentsbut their impact can be huge.
we are always conscious to teach them the correctWe teach children from a young age about these
manners and will always remind them to say thewords so why when we are adults do we
magic words "please and thank you" if they havesometimes forget to use them? Using these words
forgotten to use them. Saying these words costsdemonstrates respect for you and those around you.
nothing but the impact they can have can alter theWe send cards to say thank you for gifts and for
way we interact with others and more importantlyother special occasions which requires much more
how others perceive us. That's why they areeffort than simply speaking the words.
referred to as "magic".So, today when you are going about your business,
Saying please each time you request somethingmake a note to yourself to say please and thank
displays politeness, courtesy and consideration to theyou. Start today to use these words. Whether you
person you have just made the request to. Sayingare buying something in a shop, asking for directions
thank you each time you have received something oror requesting some information remind yourself to
a task has been completed also depicts yoursay please and thank you to anyone who has
gratitude. Let's face it, everyone likes to beoffered you some kind of service today. After a
appreciated and know they are of value to others.while these words will become habit and as well as
Using these simple words is also a reflection of yourhaving a positive impact on how you relate to others,
own attitude towards others and will attract peopleyou yourself will feel so much better.
to you because they can see you are sincere.It's true there are some people for whom good
In today's world where life has become so busy,etiquette comes naturally. They know how to smile,
these two little words seem to be used lesswhich questions to ask and how to make people
frequently. People are too busy rushing around andaround them feel good about themselves. Take time
seem to think only of themselves and the thingsto watch these people as you can learn an awful lot.
they have to do. By pausing just for a moment toThese two little words are indeed magic. Using them
say these magic words you may just brighten uphas a positive impact on yourself and those around
someone's day and give them a feeling of value. Asyou and costs you nothing.
we stated before, these words cost nothing to say