Teach Your Child to Think Clearly and Solve Problems

The need to teach the next generation how to thinkwatching television, compared with average daily
clearly in a search for solutions to complex issues hasone-to-one conversation with school-age children of
perhaps never been more important than it is today.9.5 minutes for at-home mothers, 10.7 for working
As Richard Simon, Ph.D., editor of Psychotherapymothers, and less for fathers.
Newsletter, said, "the world is not burdened by anChallenge Your Own Assumptions
overabundance of wisdom." But it may be that yourIt is impossible not to share your perspective on life
child--with your support as a logic coach--is the onewith your child. What you probably fail to tell them is
who helps us find a way out of the mess we're in.why you believe what you do. However, if you share
Unfortunately, there are pitfalls lying in the path ofwith her how difficult it is to evaluate conflicting
clear and accurate reasoning, which include thesepoints of view and if you show her that arriving at
common critical thinking errors:conclusions takes some effort, she will discover that
- We interpret information to fit our biases andthere are almost always several legitimate points of
assumptions because our ego has a stake in beingview. She will realize that life is not black and white,
right.no matter how much we would like it to be
- We think we know more than we do and can holdotherwise.
strongly held opinions without any facts orI call this way of teaching clear reasoning the "why,
knowledge to support them.what, where, when, who, and how" approach.
- We accept most statistics without question (unlessMake certain your child learns the basics of
they support the position of an opponent).government and other institutions
- We tend to accept the logic of conclusions offeredAccording to a new million-dollar survey by the John
by authorities and experts.S. and James L. Knight Foundation, almost a third of
- We don't read the small print. How do you becomehigh school students, upon hearing the actual text of
a logic coach for your child? Here are three ways:the 1st Amendment, thinks it goes "too far." In yet
Make Your Child More Important Than TVanother survey, six out of 10 Americans failed to
As Lydia Bellino, author of Raising Lifelong Learners,name all three branches of government and fewer
notes, "it is through talk that children learnthan one in 10 could name all four rights guaranteed
to"understand logical sequences, recognize causes,by the 1st Amendment.
anticipate consequences, explore options, andYou will be a first-rate logic coach if you make
consider motives." Yet families in this country spend 6certain your child (and you) are familiar with how our
hours a week shopping and 30 hours a weekgovernment was founded and what makes it run.