The Power of Narrative - How We Are Changed and Challenged by the Stories of Others

I work from home and usually have the radio on allKristof goes into in his talk).
day, sometimes just as background noise or to catchAnother thing really struck me about Kristof's speech.
the occasional news story. This week, I walked intoHe pointed out that social psychology has shown that
the kitchen to make lunch, and I heard an incrediblehumans have very different base levels of happiness.
talk given by Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist andSome tend to be more happy, some tend to be less,
author Nicholas Kristof at the Westminster Town Halland all the things that we think will make us happier
Forum. I stood silent at the kitchen counter for a fullusually don't. And here's the paradox, as outlined by
hour, my lunch uneaten, unable to tear myself awayneuroscientist and author Jonah Lehrer:
from the pull of the stories he was telling.Although per-capita wealth has more than doubled in
Kristof has been writing for years about human rightsmany industrialized nations over the last fifty years,
abuses in Asia and Africa, particularly humanlevels of happiness have flat-lined. Even more
trafficking and the genocide in Darfur. He has beendispiriting is the fact that, as countries become more
the international voice of many women abroad whoprosperous, depression becomes significantly more
have faced unspeakable horrors and who have daredcommon.
to tell their stories anyway. With his wife, also anTo that paradox, Kristof offered this reminder to his
accomplished journalist, Kristof wrote Half the Sky:listeners: there is one thing that has been found to
Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Womenuniversally elevate our base level of happiness, and
Worldwide.that is "engagement with some cause larger than
During his presentation, he spoke candidly of theourselves."
urgent need to establish gender equity. Research hasIt is a difficult and cynical time we live in. People
shown the the best way by far to fight poverty andeverywhere will tell you that there's nothing you can
extremism globally is to educate women and girls.do, that we are removed from these stories and
The ripple effect of educating girls literally changesthat they have no real effect on our daily lives. But
everything. It elevates the social and economicour engagement -- whatever the cause -- shows
situations of individuals, families and neighborhoods.something vastly different: that these stories matter
Entire villages have been lifted out of poverty in onea great deal, that we can be transformed by them,
generation when its girls have had a chance to go toand that they have something to say to us, now,
school (there are several reasons for this, whichabout who we are and who we will be.