Woman's Self Defense - The Bachelorette Party

Not long ago we threw a bachelorette party in NYCstreet. "Awe, Chelle I love ya. But what if you get
for one of my dearest girlfriends. The group of us,hurt?" she said. "I'll be alright" I told her. The truth is
about 7 women dressed to kill, hit the town withthat I didn't know if bullets might fly or if one of the
intent to have a great time. After many cocktails,cars might come right up onto the sidewalk. But I
dinner and a show, we walked a few short blocks towasn't afraid. I knew that no matter what happened
a cozy bar where we kicked some serious tail playingin the moments to follow I was better prepared to
drinking games with out-of-staters who in losinghandle it then she was and it was my instinct and
fashion supplied us with even more drinks. We weredesire to protect her.
being picked up by car service so there were noEven in the state of being less than sober, I
holds barred in our night out. We had a great time.maintained awareness of our surroundings, sensed
It's sometimes in the smallest of moments when wepossible danger and acted upon it. Was it the best
discover how much we care for someone else.choice to protect my friend while putting myself into
Though she and I have been friends for years, itdanger, I don't know but I'd do it again in a heart
was that night I realized how much I adore mybeat. Thankfully, the situation dissolved after those
friend, the bride-to-be.few unsure moments and both cars sped away.
Strolling the narrow village streets, walking quiteWe went on to make our way to the bar, where
drunkly arm-in-arm in route from the show venue towe were challenged to a friendly game of flip-cup by
the bar, we chatted about "doing this more often"another group of women also celebrating a
rather than waiting for life events to prompt us.bachelorette night. What fun we had beating them
Suddenly, two cars on the street, only feet awayrepeatedly; those poor chicks from out of town
from where we were, started engaging in road ragedidn't realize that we metropolitan women play to
with the first car stopping suddenly and the secondwin.
screeching its tires to avoid crashing. Yelling ensuedMy friend had a great time and good memories of
as the situation escalated and out of nowhere ourthat last night being single on the town. Thankfully
little happy group was directly amidst unfoldingthe potential of the bad situation did not come to
danger. The situation was getting uglier by thefruition, but if it had, I was prepared to protect her.
second and there was no time for us to get away...It was shear instinct to have moved her away from
"Get on the inside" I told her as I moved her inwarddanger; I was ready to defend us both.
while shifting myself to the outside, closest to the