| Any man who has dated Asian ladies who live in the | | | | other cultures. Besides wanting a better life, most |
| United States, has witness the wrath, jealously and | | | | Asian ladies want better treatment. In a Filipina lady's |
| prejudice of American women towards Asian ladies. I | | | | eyes, men from the West treat women better then |
| know I have, as have many of my friends. The | | | | men from their country. Is there truth to this? The |
| stereotypical has some merit: American women can't | | | | feed back I get from the ladies at my website is yes |
| compete against the Asians' sexuality, American | | | | or at least they perceive it to be so. I'm sure the |
| women feel threaten and some American women | | | | social status of your family makes a difference of |
| simply think Asians are stealing their men. These all | | | | how you are treated regardless of your gender, but |
| bear some truth. | | | | I'm talking about the average Filipina lady. The |
| My experience is first hand. I dated many Asian ladies | | | | difference is simple. In her country what she does |
| and have heard the comments. If we frequent a | | | | for her man or husband is expected without |
| typical American club, I have had my dates threaten | | | | appreciation. Here in the United States, most men |
| by American women in the restroom. In time, Asian | | | | come to expect a lady isn't required to serve him, to |
| clubs sprung up in the United States. At an Asian club, | | | | want to please him, and love him for who he is. |
| American women are welcome. I have never seen an | | | | When an Asian lady does, his appreciation is certain. |
| American lady being threaten by Asians in a typical | | | | For an Asian lady, the man doesn't have to be super |
| Asian club. It just isn't their nature. The crowd in | | | | rich or look like a movie star, just treat her well and |
| these clubs are usually Asian ladies and American | | | | show his love. It's a merry-go-round with respect and |
| men. | | | | love as it's focal point. She wants to please him, he |
| There are many Asian ladies in the U.S., especially | | | | loves her for pleasing him, she loves him for showing |
| from the Philippines. A lot of these ladies arrived via | | | | he appreciates her love and so on. |
| meeting an American G.I. I really don't know the | | | | All the above words, statements and my |
| percentage, but there is no doubt that most Filipina | | | | observations have their exceptions. There is no |
| ladies have a military connection in some way. They | | | | doubt, there are bad men in every country. There is |
| met in the Philippines, got married, and came to the | | | | no doubt that some women only are in it for the |
| United States with their military husband. | | | | money or to get a free pass to the United States. |
| Consequently, you'll meet Asian ladies in clubs who | | | | These are the exceptions and it is this minority that |
| are married. If you mingle with Asian ladies that | | | | the media and others will use to blanket a whole |
| frequent the clubs for any length of time, you will | | | | culture in a negative light. I'm sure most of you have |
| eventually meet ladies who are unfaithful. This | | | | seen in print or on the news about "mail order bride" |
| unfaithfulness is how Filipina ladies are branded as | | | | scandals or "mail order bride" mistreatment as if this |
| whores by American women. This doesn't carry the | | | | defines all courtships and marriages that develop |
| same stigma for American women who may do the | | | | through the internet. If a few instances defines the |
| same. Hypocrisy is always evident when behaviors of | | | | standards, then just getting a marriage license in the |
| the two cultures are compared. | | | | United States should have a warning imprinted in gold. |
| What the American GI has discovered is now | | | | No matter if a couple met through the internet or at |
| catching on with non-military men. Asian dating sites | | | | the neighborhood church, you have your share of |
| have sprung up all over the internet. Some of these | | | | scandals and mistreatment. The last culture of |
| sites try to exploit the Asians' sexuality. However, | | | | experts that needs to be giving advise about how to |
| there are many Asian ladies who want to meet a | | | | meet and marry a women is the United States - is |
| sincere gentlemen for a relationship. As attractive as | | | | there any other country whose divorce rate is |
| Asian ladies may be, American men are also | | | | higher? |
| captivated by the Asians' behavior towards men. A | | | | The Philippines does not condone online dating sites. |
| man's dream of having a wife who wants to please | | | | For that matter, it is against the law. I'm not going to |
| him, appreciates his love and treasures his efforts in | | | | quote their law here, but it has to do with moral |
| making a home seems to have been found by | | | | issues. Again hypocrisy!. If the Philippines are so |
| American men in the Asian culture. You'll hear | | | | worried about women rights, there are other issues |
| American men call these values "traditional values" | | | | they could concentrate on besides taking away a |
| because at one time these were the values that held | | | | women's right to find happiness, love and a better life |
| the American family together. | | | | for herself. She wouldn't be looking elsewhere, if the |
| The tired argument about these women being a | | | | Philippine government took care of her needs. Should |
| servant to their husband, is one sided. Do these | | | | I complain? Probably not, or most Filipina women |
| women like serving their husband? Yes, most do. But | | | | would not be joining online dating sites to meet |
| not as slaves. They are not forced to do so, but | | | | American men. My objection to this law is how it is |
| have the desire to please their man out of | | | | used in the Philippines as a political vehicle rather then |
| appreciation and love. These ladies are doing what | | | | sincere concern for women's rights. Hypocrisy, it is |
| they want to do. I repeat, they WANT to please | | | | everywhere, isn't it? |
| their man, do things for him and show their | | | | I started this article to comment on why a lot of |
| appreciation. In turn, these men are happy, want to | | | | American women despise Asian women. Not all |
| provide for their wife and have no desire to look | | | | American women, but a lot. But the discrimination |
| elsewhere for this appreciation. It's chemistry that | | | | doesn't stop there. It is evident in the media, politics |
| once prevailed many years ago in the United States | | | | and indeed in their own country. The people who are |
| and has been lost in the myriad of women rights in | | | | forgotten, are the couples themselves. Why not just |
| American society. | | | | ask them? If two people who found each other are |
| Why do Filipina women want to marry a foreigner | | | | happy, in love and want to be together, why does |
| from another country? I'm not going to argue the | | | | the media and politician think they know better. More |
| fact that these ladies want a better life. It's probably | | | | then likely, it isn't about what the couple want, but |
| true. I will argue that most women, no matter the | | | | more about politics and sensationalism to sell news. |
| country, want to marry in to a better life. Again, it is | | | | Take your hatred, your narrow minded views and |
| the hypocrisy of who you are that makes a behavior | | | | negative publicity elsewhere and let us find love - |
| negative or not. Most women, in the United States, | | | | even if we find it on the internet. |
| need to look in a mirror before judging ladies from | | | | |