The Smoking Fetish: Is It The Newest Form Of Sexual Stimulation?

In the last several years I've noticed a steadyif she blew more smoke in his face. As she was
increase in a certain type of sexual stimulation knownsmoking and she blew the plume of smoke into the
as the smoking fetish.The question I posed to myselfair, the smoke slowly dissipated and made its way to
was of a different nature. What does olfactoryhis nose, he again experienced sexual sensations.He
stimulation, or the sense of smell, as related toadmitted he was half embarrassed by the whole
exhaled cigarette smoke, have to do with sexualthing, but still curious. He asked his girlfriend to blow
excitement?For thousands of years it has beenthe smoke toward him every time she would exhale.
known that the sense of smell can stimulate sexualShe gladly accommodated him. The man explained
response in human beings and otherthat he was excited at not only the smell but the
animals.Pheromones are chemical molecules secretedway the smoke slowly made its way to his face
and fit specifically at olfactory receptor sites ateither through plumes rolling through the air or slowly
locations in the nasal canal. These receptor sites, inmaking its way in waves toward him, like a lava lamp.
turn, send signals to the brain. These signals usuallyAs this exhaled smoke made its way to his nose,
cause a sexual stimulatory response in the oppositeagain, it stimulated him in a fashion he could not
sex, and attraction occurs.Millions of dollars are spentexplain.Needless to say, that night he went on to
producing perfumes, colognes, and other varioushave the best sex that he ever had with his girlfriend.
fragrances in the attempt to cause one human toHe explained he had the most intense orgasm he had
attract another through the sense of smell. If theever experienced.When I asked him what he thought
opposite sex likes the smell, an attraction can occur.caused all of this, he could not explain. The only thing
This attraction, in turn, eventually leads to some formhe could explain was that the smell was more
of sexual attraction. The long-term goal of the sexualfeminine and reflected a peculiar attractive smell. He
attraction, of course, is to influence that person intoexplained that the smell of her exhaled smoke was
some sexual encounter.There has been scores ofsomehow a reflection of her own pleasure. He also
scientific studies researching the effects ofexplained something very interesting to me. He went
pheromones and fragrances, that cause sexualon to say that since the smoke was inside her
attraction between humans.There has been oneattractive, feminine body, and exhaled it was
scent, or smell, entirely overlooked by the scientificsomehow altered by her femininity and sexually
community.I don't know if it is so much new, or justexciting.Again there is a certain sexual connotation to
recently discovered. But there exists a smell thatthis. The man was referring to the smoke being
causes very strong sexual responses. At least ininside of her, followed by being exhaled outside of
some people. Perhaps many people. This olfactoryher. This could be compared to the sexual act of
response, or smell, is simply the smell of exhaledbeing inside the woman, followed by a release and
cigarette smoke.Don't laugh. I'm totally serious.All youultimately being outside of her.I'm not exactly sure
have to do is conduct a search on the Internet ofhow long this smoking fetish has been in existence. I
smoke fetishes, and you'll find millions of web siteswould suspect that it's been around a long time.
related to the subject of smoking and sexualHowever, many people are embarrassed by it for
excitement.I wanted to know why, and why thefear of being ridiculed.With all of the political
smell of smoke is so sexually exciting to many, withincorrectness going on about smoking it certainly
the increasing political incorrectness associated withwould be something that someone would wish to
it.The Smoking FetishThere are several differentsuppress.However with all of the smoking fetish web
aspects and reasons why a person can be excitedsites, forums, and discussion groups, the smoking
by the act of smoking. Usually it's by watching thefetish can certainly no longer be denied as one of the
act.The most predominant form of sexual fetish I'vestrong, and more popular fetishes that exist. The
researched is the male watching the female performInternet has proved this.In conclusion, even though I
the act of cigarette smoking.After researching thiscould partially understand why a man would be
subject and being a little confused as to why thisexcited about watching the woman smoke because
fetish even exists, I've obtained information that hasof the oral visual effects, I wanted to find out if
not only satisfied much of my curiosity about thethere was actual stimulation from the smell of the
subject, but has also given me reasons as to whyexhaled smoke. Which, again, is certainly different
this fetish exists.The male seems to experience athan the smell of smoke not inhaled.In my opinion
sexual tension, or high, watching an attractive womanthere is a difference.I have to admit that I enjoy
light up and bring the cigarette to her lips to drawsmoking a Virginia Slim sometimes. I, myself, have
the smoke in. The act of drawing, commonlysmoked and tried it both ways. Taking a drag of the
referred to as pumping, or double pumping thecigarette and blowing the smoke out both ways.
smoke is accompanied by hollowing of the cheeks.After inhalation and after not being inhaled. Both
This is followed by a long, drawn out, exhalation ofmyself, as well as my husband, agree that there is a
smoke into the air through pursed lips.Some of us aredifference. When I drew the same exact amount of
more orally fixated than others. It has beensmoke in and inhaled, followed by an exhalation of a
scientifically documented that people who smoke,long plume of creamy smoke into the air, we both
moreover females who smoke, have greater oralagree that the smell is very nice. Even sensual. A
fixations then people who don't smoke. I'm certainlysmell we both like, very much.I also must admit that
not sexist, as I'm a woman myself. But there doesmy husband liked the smell even though he could not
seem to exist in the literature an associationexplain why. By the way, the smell not only was
between oral fixation and smoking.Even though Ienjoyed by both of us but excited my husband
have gone over many of the visual stimulationsexually. This in turn, excited me as well. I have also,
affects that smoking has on people, which can beactually witnessed men in bars walking, or dancing
very stimulating to someone, I am not focusing onright into the direct path of exhaled smoke blown by
this subject right now in this article.The focus of thisan attractive woman. They tried to be discreet. But
article is more specifically on the actual olfactorythey ended up staying in the exhaled smoke cloud as
response, or smell, of the exhaled smoke itself. Firstlong as they could without being noticed.Some of the
of all, I must state there is no problem finding manywomen noticed this and were amused by it. One
people who cannot stand the smell of smoke in anynoticed it and whispered something into her girlfriend's
form or fashion. With that said and out of the way,ear and repeated the act two additional times so
let's press forward.Why does the smoking fetishthey could both witness it. Her friend then did it
exist?Does the smell of the exhaled smoke play aherself to watch the man "discreetly" immerse
part in the fetish?There is certainly a visual sexualhimself in her exhaled smoke cloud. I've also seen
attractiveness to the act of smoking. Watching aother women who were uncomfortable after noticing
women bring a slim, long, white cigarette to her redmen trying to smell their clouds, and moved to other
lips, make contact with her lips, followed byareas. Not surprising. Some women are uncomfortable
performing the oral act of the cheek hollowingwith this fetish, and don't want to know about it.
drawing in, inhaling and exhaling the smoke into the airOthers are either amused by it, enjoy it, and happy
can certainly cause sexual tension in some men.Butto accommodate you by blowing smoke either in
the focus of this article, again, is on the actual smellyour face, or at least, toward you.Still not
of the exhaled smoke itself.When a woman exhalesconvinced?On another occasion, my husband and I
smoke into the air, with a sexual connotation, there iswent to a very exclusive restaurant for a special
something sexually stimulating about watching theevening together. We were dressed for the occasion.
smoke roll through the air and slowly dissipate. NowMy husband wearing a suit and tie, and I was wearing
let us focus on the actual smell of the cloud ofa silky dress, with sheer overlay, and high heels. Very
exhaled smoke.For one thing, there is certainly afloaty. Being the analyst that I am, I noticed a few
difference in the smell of exhaled smoke asthings.One, most of the time as I drew on my
compared to the smell of uninhaled smoke. There arecigarette and blew out the smoke, I noticed many
certain kinds of secondhand smoke. There's smokemale eyes watching.Two, something very peculiar
that rises off the end of the cigarette. There is theindeed. While the waiter was bringing back our drinks,
smoke that's drawn in orally into the oral cavity and ifI positioned the cigarette between my manicured
not inhaled into the lungs, but blown out, is heavierfingernails away from the waiter, as to be polite, and
and smells different than inhaled smoke. On the otherblew my smoke out into the aisle way toward the
hand, when the smoke is drawn in, and inhaled intofloor. As my exhaled plume of smoke rolled toward
the lungs and blown out into the air, it certainly hasthe floor and pooled there, slowly dissipating, the
different properties and a different smell. The smell iswaiter acted as if he didn't notice anything. However,
different than any other smell of the cigarette.Ihe actually went out of his way to bend down and
challenge anyone to have someone light a cigaretteposition his head right in the midst of my exhaled
somewhere, and smell the smoke that comes fromsmoke. He acted as if he was picking something up
one end, and then smell the smoke that is inhaled andoff the floor. However, nothing was there. For some
blown into the air. They will smell somethingreason he knelt and bent down as to bath his face in
completely different.The smoke that's been inhaled,the cloud of my fresh exhaled smoke.He then walked
followed by a long plume exhalation into the air is aaway in a nervous-like fashion.I don't know if it was
much different smell. I must admit, it's a lighter, morethe smell of my exhaled smoke mixed with the
fragrant smell. Even as this exhaled smoke dissipatesperfume I was wearing or what. But there was
into the air one will notice the different smell. Manydefinitely something to it. My husband and I both
people describe the smell as not only better than thenoticed him doing this. I just smiled at my husband
other smells of the cigarette, but actually a good,and the next time the waiter came back, I treated
pleasant smell. This perception of the smell of thishim to another fresh cloud higher up in the aisle-way
kind of smoke is not only from smokers themselves,for him to enjoy.Again, he took the bait. He kept his
but from many nonsmokers also.For example, I'veface in the cloud until it was completely gone. It was
had many people, even nonsmokers, explain to meas if he was completely absorbing it.Even now, when
that they cannot stand the smell of smoke in the air.my husband and I go to the mall, we both can
The residual smoke and the smell of smoke onidentify the smell of freshly exhaled smoke in the air.
clothing, furniture, or in the room. However, theyWe smell it, and look around. Sure enough, there's a
have the different perception of freshly exhaledcouple of women sitting on a bench conversing,
smoke, especially from the opposite sex as perhapsenjoying a cigarette and cup of coffee. At this point,
when experienced in a public place such as awe can even tell the difference between exhaled
restaurant or bar.Let me share story with you. Onefemale smoke and male smoke, and whether it's a
man came into my therapy session and explainedstrong unfiltered cigarette, or one of the more
that he had a smoking fetish. He didn't realize he hadfeminine cigarettes.Sounds crazy doesn't it? But it's
this fetish until recently. However, he went on toabsolutely true. In fact, as explained, I actually studied
explain that he's never smoked and he could notit over a three month period and documented my
stand the smell of smoke. However, he had aresults. Confession, it has been one of my more
girlfriend who smokes. They were in a restaurant oneenjoyable research projects.I must admit, when
night and she lit up the cigarette and he was slightlystudying the top of the line sexually attractive
offended at this act, but since he had a few drinks,females out there, you know the ones ahead of
he thought he was much more relaxed about thetheir game, there is, and has been, evidence that
whole thing.While watching his girlfriend's smoking hetaking a long drag of a cigarette with red luscious lips,
noticed that he became more interested in the wayfollowed by blowing long plumes of creamy smoke
she brought the cigarette to her lips, drew theinto the air certainly works in getting attention. All
smoke in and exhaled the smoke.What reallyyou have to do is watch any movie from the 1940's
surprised him was before he got up to use theor 1950's to witness this. Perhaps the smell of this
restroom his girlfriend took a long drag of herexhaled smoke had also played a role in the
cigarette and blew the smoke into an area awayattraction. Perhaps it has gone undocumented until
from him. As he walked to the restroom he endednow.Perhaps I'll incorporate some of my therapy
up walking right through the cloud of her exhaledsessions to include blowing creamy plumes of smoke
smoke. As he walked through this cloud he could notin the faces of clients who display sexual inhibitions.
believe he experienced the strongest sexualPerhaps they'll benefit from it. Then again, perhaps I
stimulation and urges he's never felt in his life.will.Silka Winsome is a sex therapist, freelance writer,
Following this, he was very curious about the wholeand has modeled for many retail fashion outlets while
experience. So he asked his girlfriend to blow herin school, including JC Penney. Her unique approach to
plume of smoke toward him and eventually right ingrowing sexual issues makes her unique in many
his face.Wanting to experiment with this more, whenways.
they arrived home, he asked her if she wouldn't mind