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Article #197: Would You Let Your Kids Go To A Youth Group Run By Jesus?

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Would you let your kids go to a sheep in the pasture and go looking for
Youth Group run by Jesus? the one that got lost until you find it."
A sermon on Luke chapter 15 "When you find it", He continues, "you
One day when many tax collectors and are so happy that you put it on your
other outcasts came to listen to Jesus, shoulders and carry it back home. Then
the Pharisees and teachers of the Law you call your friends and neighbours
started grumbling, "This man welcomes together and say to them, 'I am so happy
outcasts and even eats with them!" I found my lost sheep. Let us
So Jesus told them this parable: "Suppose celebrate!'"
one of you has a hundred sheep and loses And so you kill the fatted calf (or the
one of them---what do you do? You leave fatted sheep perhaps in this case) and
the other ninety-nine sheep in the have a party, which would sort of destroy
pasture and go looking for the one that the point of finding it, but it's a
got lost until you find it. When you find pretty bizarre story to being with!
it, you are so happy that you put it on What sort of shepherd loses one sheep out
your shoulders and carry it back home. of a hundred and then responds by leaving
Then you call your friends and neighbors the ninety-nine to fend for themselves
together and say to them, 'I am so happy while he goes off and pours all his time
I found my lost sheep. Let us celebrate!' and energy into looking for the one that
In the same way, I tell you, there will was lost? What type of shepherd does
be more joy in heaven over one sinner who that? A rather eccentric shepherd, to say
repents than over ninety-nine respectable the least!
people who do not need to repent. Now I don't pretend to know a lot about
"Or suppose a woman who has ten silver shepherding. Indeed, I'm not far ahead of
coins loses one of them, what does she Pink when it comes to understanding the
do? She lights a lamp, sweeps her house, wool trade. Even so, I think I do know
and looks carefully everywhere until she something about running a business and I
finds it. When she finds it, she calls know that if you have a hundred assets of
her friends and neighbors together, and any kind and lose one, you don't
says, 'I am so happy I found the coin I sacrifice the ninety-nine in order to get
lost. Let us celebrate!' In the same way, the one back! That's just common sense -
I tell you, the angels of God rejoice something the shepherd in this story
over one sinner who repents." doesn't seem to have a lot of!
Jesus went on to say, "There was once a "Or suppose a woman who has ten silver
man who had two sons. The younger one coins loses one of them - what does she
said to him, 'Father, give me my share of do? She lights a lamp, sweeps her house,
the property now.' So the man divided his and looks carefully everywhere until she
property between his two sons. After a finds it. When she finds it, she calls
few days the younger son sold his part of her friends and neighbours together, and
the property and left home with the says to them, 'I am so happy I found the
money. He went to a country far away, coin I lost. Let us celebrate!"
where he wasted his money in reckless What sort of woman behaves like that? A
living. He spent everything he had. Then woman with a mental illness, surely!
a severe famine spread over that country, It has been suggested that these ten
and he was left without a thing. coins were actually a dowry of some kind
So he went to work for one of the and hence worth a fortune, but there's
citizens of that country, who sent him nothing really in this short yarn to
out to his farm to take care of the pigs. suggest that. No, this woman is (to use
He wished he could fill himself with the Susan's term) very much on the spectrum!
bean pods the pigs ate, but no one gave She loses one lousy coin. She turns her
him anything to eat. At last he came to life, and certainly her home, upside-down
his senses and said, 'All my father's - pulling up floorboards, furniture in
hired workers have more than they can the front yard, etc - looking for it. And
eat, and here I am about to starve! I when she finds it, she holds a party,
will get up and go to my father and say, which is bound her cost her more than
"Father, I have sinned against God and what the coin was worth!
against you. I am no longer fit to be Or what father among you, having a son
called your son; treat me as one of your who got hold of his inheritance, and then
hired workers." ' So he got up and took off with it and wasted it all,
started back to his father. wouldn't stand out at the front gate each
"He was still a long way from home when day, waiting for his boy to come home?
his father saw him; his heart was filled That's a rather abbreviated version of
with pity, and he ran, threw his arms the last story, but I think I've captured
around his son, and kissed him. 'Father,' the essence of it nonetheless.
the son said, 'I have sinned against God What sort of father continues to hold out
and against you. I am no longer fit to be hope for his son and then takes him back,
called your son.' But the father called even though he has disrespected him, hurt
to his servants. 'Hurry!' he said. 'Bring him, abandoned him and betrayed him?
the best robe and put it on him. Put a What sort of father does that? A stupid
ring on his finger and shoes on his feet. father, of course! A father who cares
Then go and get the prize calf and kill more about his weak and pathetic
it, and let us celebrate with a feast! offspring than he does about his own good
For this son of mine was dead, but now he name and reputation! A father who is less
is alive; he was lost, but now he has concerned with justice than he is with
been found.' picking up weaklings! A father whose
We're in Luke chapter 15, and Jesus sentimental affection for his wayward
appears to be partying again! child is so all-consuming that he seems
Jesus was fond of saying that the Kingdom to be incapable of just giving thanks for
of God is like a party, and he seemed his remaining good children and getting
keen to illustrate that with his on with life. In other words ... any
lifestyle, wherein he was a frequent father, any mother, anyone who loves
guest at dinner parties and a not too their children! For love makes us do
infrequent host of spontaneous soirees. stupid things.
And I don't think that Jesus' religious It's interesting, isn't it, that when you
peers would have been too concerned about work your way through the stories, you
all that, austere though they may have can see a sort of progressive
been, had it not been for the type of degeneration. We start with the eccentric
persons He regularly invited to join Him shepherd, followed by the
at these parties."This man welcomes neurotic-obsessive woman, followed by the
outcasts and even eats with them!" (read insane father, but by the time we get to
'parties' with them) the father, the insanity is starting to
I remember well, back at my home church make sense (if you know what I mean)
in Surry Hills, we decided one Easter to because it is an insanity that is based
put on a party for the homeless in our on love, and love makes us do crazy
area. I used to run a youth group back things!
there in the early 80's - at the Chinese We love our children. All of us who are
Presbyterian Church of Surry Hills, and parents would, I think, die a thousand
we decided to invite all the homeless times over to save our children from
persons from the local shelters to dinner suffering. That doesn't make a lot of
at the church. sense, but love doesn't always make
We already had a long-term working sense, especially when it comes to our
relationship with the local Sydney City own children.
Mission homes and other detox centres in And this is where the rubber hits the
the area. The only problem was that most road when it comes to these no-hopers
of us were too young to drive, and a lot that Jesus likes to hang around with. The
of the homeless persons were not very question is whether we think of these
mobile, but the local Missionbeat drivers people as somebody else's problems, or as
helped out by bussing everybody who members of our own family!
couldn't walk up to the church hall, and Whenever I'm at a gathering with my
since half the kids in the youth group fellow clerics, people ask me about our
had parents who owned Chinese Youth Centre. The first question normally
restaurants, we were able to put on a is, "so are these kids you're providing
tremendous smorgasbord, followed by a for mainly kids from your church?" And
movie ('Chariots of Fire', I think it the answer is "no". The second question
was). is, "well, do you see a lot of those kids
That night was probably the best memory I come into the church through your work?",
have of my many years in the Chinese to which the answer again is "no". At
Presbyterian Church. The only problem was some point the question comes, "so why do
that, after it was all over, the elders you bother?"
of the church forbade us from ever It's a fair question I suppose. Why would
repeating the performance, the explicit you squander your resources on people who
reason given was that one of the girls are never likely to repay you or even
had been propositioned by one of the old thank you.
men! Of course, sometimes I try to defend our
At the time I thought, 'what a bunch of work by pointing to our success stories -
wankers!' But now I too am a parent, and people we've worked with who have got off
I can better understand why a parent the needle and become law-abiding
might not be overjoyed at the thought of citizens, but the truth is that we
his daughter's youth group being haven't had all that many success
overtaken by ageing alcoholic men. stories, and in my opinion, we mustn't
I wonder if we would send our kids along let the significance of our work be
to a youth group that Jesus was running? determined by the number of success
Of course we might assume that the stories we've had either.
no-hopers who hung around Jesus, once Somebody once said to me that priests and
they were in His company, all behaved social workers are just glorified
like respectable middle-class citizens. prostitutes. They'll give themselves body
Frankly, I doubt it. and soul to help someone, but they charge
I imagine that, given the types of a price, and the price they charge is
persons that huddled around Jesus, there 'change'. No change, no love!
would have, at the very least, been a We can't demand change, and I don't think
fair bit of flirting going on at those Jesus always saw change. Lots of people
gatherings. Maybe the occasional fight Jesus touched did change, but do we
would break out? Certainly there would really think that every sex-worker that
have been some pretty colourful language came to Jesus ended up getting a job in a
flying around at those parties, as you bank? I don't think so.
get the impression that the grog flowed The Kingdom of God is like a party! And I
pretty freely! figure that there are three kinds of
Don't forget that, unlike most of us people you can invite to a party:
clerical types who try to represent Jesus The people who deserve to be there
to the world, Jesus Himself had a (because they are just great people)
reputation for being glutton and a People who have earned their right to be
drunkard! I imagine that He got that there (because you owe them)
reputation from the company He kept. And The type of people Jesus invited to His
so the upright grumble, saying, "This man parties: missing sheep, lost coins,
welcomes outcasts and even eats with wayward sons
them!" Do all the sheep get found? Do all the
And Jesus hears them grumbling, and He coins turns turn up? Do all the wayward
tells them a story - three stories in children return home? We know they don't,
fact - about three parties, and each one and we can't demand it and we can't
is framed as a question. expect it. But when it does happen, "I
"Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep tell you", says Jesus, "there is more joy
and loses one of them, what do you do?" in heaven over that one wayward child who
Jesus clearly intends this to be a finds her way back home than there is
rhetorical question, as He answers it for over all the rest of us well-behaved
us - "You leave the other ninety-nine children who never left!






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